

NON-HABITUAL THINKING
Carsten Graff has delivered more than 2000 lectures worldwide. In his lectures, he explores themes such as technology, leadership, learning, self-empowerment, sexuality, relationships, and mush more. Get in touch if you have an audience ready to break free from habitual thinking.


NEGATIVE PSYCHOLOGY
A Lecture by Carsten Graff
Every year, billions of dollars are invested in the self-development industry. Yet instead of fostering genuine self-awareness, the opposite often occurs. Eager to display the “right” values, many participants put on masks and engage in virtue signaling, simulated positivity, and insincere compliments. In this way, self-development can end up destroying authenticity — and without authenticity, there can be no trust or true human connection. Using reverse psychology, Graff turns the world upside down and reveals how embracing negativity can, paradoxically, lead to genuine positivity.

This lecture is for you if you agree
I feel closed off when someone demands that I should be open.
I prefer to talk about my “problems” instead of my “challenges”.
I only give compliments when other people have earned them.
I prefer to be genuinely depressed than fake and happy.
I resent being expected to be assertive, mindful, or a “whole person”.
Anonymous Questions
During this lecture, Graff responds to anonymous questions from the audience — exploring thought-provoking ideas about authenticity, self-development, and genuine human care.

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SHEDDING LIGHT ON HIDDEN TRUTHS
Dive into the taboos and hidden aspects of life that society often avoids. This section explores unconventional perspectives, encourages honest reflection, and empowers you to confront difficult topics with curiosity and courage, fostering personal growth and authentic living.




