About Graff

Carsten Gaff

Taboo-philosopher, unhabitual thinker and intimacy explorer. Graff is an award-winning author of more than 20 books. His books have been printed in more than 300.000 copies. He writes about the taboos connected to death, money, relationships education, management, incest,  computers, rape, sex, business, and many others. Graff has done more than 2500 lectures worldwide. 

Most of his life he has been exploring unconventional approaches to intimacy and relationships. Since the beginning of his career, Graff has been working with people on an intimate level for more than 25 years. Graff has an unknown number of children and girlfriends and lives as a global citizen feeling at home everywhere. 


Carsten is often compared to the little boy in the fairytale "The emperor’s new clothes" who is talking about the obvious truths that most people do not want to address.

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