THE TABOO OF THE HAREM

Published:  November 26th, 2022 Genre: Memoir: Pages 208: For adults in all ages. 

 

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"The moon-landing of sex and relationships!"

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CHAPTER 1


CREATING A THERAPEUTIC HAREM


Most men have explored the fantasy of being surrounded by a group of beautiful women who act as their personal harem. I am no exception and I often considered ways to actualize the fantasy but I also had my doubts if it was possible. One day, when hanging out with a friend in London, I told him about my dream of establishing a harem. 
    “Harems are oppressive,” my friend said. “Why should a group of women want to be part of something that only satisfies one man’s sexual urges?”
    “A harem does not need to focus on satisfying one man,” I said. “If I were creating a harem, I would do it to satisfy the women’s sexual urges.”
   “But why would a group of women limit their freedom by being part of a harem?” he asked. 
   “They wouldn’t need to limit their freedom,” I said, “A modern harem should be like an open relationship. Everyone can come and go when they want and can also have other partners outside the harem.”
For a moment, he looked at me like I was mad, before laughing. 
    “I recommend you see a psychologist!” he concluded. “The only women who will sign up for your harem will be escort girls, and they will do whatever they can to rip you off.”
   “It wouldn’t work with escorts,” I said. 
   “Why not?” 
   “I’m a demisexual,” I explained. “I need a genuine emotional connection with a woman to have sex with her.”
   “Crazy!” he exclaimed, shaking his head. “In that case, not even escorts will want to be part of your harem.”  

When I left my friend that day, I kept considering the implications of gathering a harem. When one woman has sex with many men, we call it a gangbang, and when one man has sex with many women, we call it a reverse gangbang. Setups like these are purely sexual and have no social, intellectual, or romantic dimension. As opposed to a gangbang, a harem also has a social, aesthetic, and empowering dimension. If facilitated in the right way, a harem could have immense therapeutic value, and would surely appeal much more to most women than a gangbang. 

    For the next couple of days, I kept thinking about the conversation I had with my friend about the harem. Something about the way he had dismissed the idea annoyed me while also motivating me to prove that it was possible. In the coming months, I would set out to recruit a group of eight to ten intelligent and sexually explorative women with whom I had a genuine mutual attraction. By finding the right women, I wanted to reform the general perception of a harem by giving a group of women a space to unfold sexually, gain pleasure, and learn from the experience. 

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This is a true story but details and names have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals. Conversations have been reconstructed from the author’s memory.

Revolutionizing The Harem

The true story of how taboo philosopher Carsten Graff gathered a therapeutic harem with eleven women. Graff had the vision to reform and update the ancient culture of a harem. Instead of creating a harem for the sake of one man, he wanted to give the women a space to unfold sexually, gain pleasure, and learn from the experience. With each of the harem women, Graff opened a genuine emotional connection. This is the story of an extreme journey into the hidden knowledge of intimacy, revealing how to create a modern harem based on honesty and good chemistry.

 

Setting up the harem involved immense planning and at least a thousand hours of work. Graff developed a unique scouting approach and a profiling method for potential harem candidates. He also developed what he calls his “harem survival kit.”. In this story, he explains the full details of his approach while guiding the reader through unexplored aspects of love, sex, and relationships.

This book answers questions like these

How to avoid manipulation when dating? How can sex become therapeutic and healing? How do you create a romantic getaway with a harem? How can twelve people make love to each other at the same time? What happens when you take a harem to a sex club? How do you create unique and honest relationships with every member of a harem? How do you avoid jealousy with one or several partners? In what ways is having a harem difficult, and what are the advantages of being single while having only one partner?

Table of Contents
 

Chapter 1 CREATING A THERAPUETIC HAREM    

Chapter 2: RECRUITING A MODERN HAREM    

Chapter 3: THE HAREM CUCKQUEAN   

Chapter 4: THE HAREM SURVIVAL KIT    

Chapter 5: THE CANDY BUTT STUFFER    
Chapter 6: FINDING CANDIDATES IN THE OPEN STREET    
Chapter 7: JUDGEMENT NIGHT    
Chapter 8: GOING HYPERGAMIC   
Chapter 9: FIRST HAREM DINNER   
Chapter 10 :VIRGIN HAREM EXPERIENCE   
Chapter 11: INDIVIDUAL DATES   
Chapter 12: THE SEXUAL LADDER   
Chapter 13: INDIVIDUAL RELATIONSHIPS   
Chapter 14: INTERVIEW FOR A BLOWJOB   
Chapter 15: THE SEXUAL STAMPEDE   
Chapter 16: HANDS-ON SEXUAL HEALING  
Chapter 17: THE HAREM CONTRACT   
Chapter 18: VIRGIN HAREM LUNCH   
Chapter 19: ORGASM CONTROL   
Chapter 20: THE SPIRITUAL HANDJOB   
Chapter 21: VIRGIN SCHOOL   
Chapter 22: SPIRITUAL FINGERING   
Chapter 23: THE BLOWJOB CONNOISSEUR   
Chapter 24: HAREM SWINGER NIGHT   
Chapter 25: MUSES AND SIRENS   
Chapter 26: SPANKING AS THERAPY  
Chapter 27: THE DOMESTICATED MAN   
Chapter 28: CUCKQUEAN AND CUCKOLD   
Chapter 29: CARLOS AND MARIA   
Chapter 30: HAREM ESCAPE WEEKEND   
Chapter 31: HOW THE HAREM BECAME TAX-DEDUCTABLE   
Chapter 32: MAKING LOVE AS A 12-SOME    
Chapter 33: BEING HEALED BY A HAREM   

Letter from a harem woman

Dear Carsten

What happened in our harem blew my mind!

So many times, in my life I have been forced to submit to situations I didn’t enjoy in relationships, and it has been very hurtful. Because of that, I have been afraid to give myself fully and afraid of trusting others.

 

While being part of the harem I learned that it is possible to give up control without fear and to explore sex and feel love and care without trying to control others.

 

Since we all started meeting, I feel so peaceful and relieved in a way that I have never felt before. As you know I have been addicted to marijuana for several years, but lately, I have had no urges to smoke.

 

I understand that you did this as a research project and that we might not meet as a harem again, but this is not a problem for me. You and the other women’s views on relationships and sex taught me so much about love that I am grateful in ways that I cannot put into words.

 

It has been incredible leaving behind some of the pain I had in my heart while also finding new and lasting friendships with the other women.

 

Love Leanna

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