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The Surrogate Lover

The Tabooed Science of intimacy

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Exploring intimacy is not my full-time profession, but for more than 20 years I have explored the science of intimacy while expanding my knowledge.

Through many experiments I found my own way to create a safe space that minimize attachment while creating freedom and healing for both parties. 

I have written about some of my experiments and experiences. On this page you can read how I perform my research.

"The Surrogate Lover" is not a business concept, but a research project and I only take clients with whom I sense great and genuine chemistry. 

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Hands-on Sexual Education For a Virgin

Lena was a virgin wanting to approach intimacy in a conscious way. This is the story of a woman who was my client for six months.

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What I Learned From Selling Sex To Women

Anna suffered from extreme jealousy. For years, she had been in therapy but there had been no change or improvement.

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An Unconventional Healing Approach 

An unconventional approach to a rape victim that created a highly surprising result. 

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Hugging a Sexual Harasser

Being a surrogate lover takes a relaxed approach to intimacy, but sometimes I become too relaxed.