Erotic Church
I'm not a conventional believer and I don't need to enter a church to have a spiritual experience. Some of my strongest spiritual experiences have been connected to lovemaking with a woman with whom I feel a deep and honest connection. The church claims to be a messenger of love and spirituality, so what would be more natural than to explore lovemaking in a church?
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On several occasions I have rented a closed down church and invited people to come and make love in the church. Last time I did it we had more than 200 enthusiastic churchgoers. During the two hours the church was open I was doing a lecture about love and intimacy.
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During the event, we had three couples making love. One couple was from the swinger culture, another from the tantric tradition and the third couple expressed their love through a bondage-session. With music and in beautiful coloured lights the man tied up his women and suspended her 7 metres over the church floor. What they did was a beautiful demonstration of love, trust and devotion.
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A few words from some of our visitors at Erotic Church:
"Thank you all for a very intimate and special evening... but especially to the couples for allowing us to share your space of intimacy! It was so beautiful and touching, in glimpses raw and direct - but always with presence. The concept is interesting - to mix a lecture with the reality of sex, love and sensual intimacy is a typical Graff approach..."
"Graff's revolutionary and controversial idea has created a whole new kind of space for conversation between the lecturer and the audience."
